1. “I didn’t sign up for this.” Whoa, that’s wild, because neither the fuck did I.
2. “I can’t be around you when you have flare-ups/symptoms, it’s too hard.” Thanks for the support and for making my illness about you.
3. “You’re not the only one in pain.” (This is a passive aggressive way of accusing us of being selfish for talking about or experiencing pain symptoms,)
4. “Good luck finding someone else willing to put up with you/take care of you.” Way to make me feel like a burden! Classic abuser speak.
